19 Easy Steps to Help You Overcome Lack of Confidence in Your 50s and beyond.

Easy Steps to Help You Overcome Lack of Confidence in Your 50s and beyond.

Whatever led you to read this article, your chances of success will increase many times over if you are genuinely willing to find new simple ways to increase your passion for life and start implementing it straightforward. “We judge ourselves by our intentions, Others judge us by Our Actions” (The Disney Institute)

You Are Much More Powerful than you Believe

1. No matter how low your self-confidence may be right now, always convinced yourself that you actually Believe You Can Do what it takes to Boost Your Confidence. Believing you have what it takes to boost your confidence is very important, because Self-believe is the foundation of anything you do, Self-believe is what will keep you going when others knock you back, and if you keep Believing In Yourself it will definitely help keep you going when you feel tired or lack in energy, it will also help you overcome unexpected obstacles.Believe You Can Do What It Takes to Boost Your Confidence.

2. The ability of believing that you have what it takes “to take your life to the next level” will help you see your challenges as opportunities for self-growth and an opportunity to positive changes in your life. It will encourage and motivate you to make the changes you can and also gives you the wisdom to know the difference between what you can change and what is not in your power to change. If you know it’s the right thing to do, don’t be afraid of hurting other’s feelings.

3. Do not allow yourself to be stuck in regrets about what should be. Learn to see past mistakes as valuable life lessons. Detach yourself from (the words: Should, shouldn’t, always will). Replace them with: I can, I have what it takes, I am open and receptive to broaden my knowledge and learn the skills I need, to become the truest and the best version of myself. Replace your negative thinking with: (I am willing, open, and receptive to learn new skills so I can overcome any challenges) that I may come across during my self-growth journey), and have fun and laughing along the process to make the process easier.

Be Creative, Always!!!

4. Your creativity will increase during the learning process, because you can always learn something from your mistakes. Be always your authentic self, and allow yourself to make mistakes. Be consciously aware of the importance of not taking the learning process in a negative way, contrary, now that you are allowing yourself to learn from your mistakes, you will be finding it much easier than you first thought, as now you can see mistakes as a great learning curve. Be always willing to learn new skills.

5. Invest in yourself and spend some quality time on your own. Aiming to Know who you really are from inside out, because knowing yourself very well will increase your confidence, energy, and motivation to do what it takes to boost your confidence and as a result; your appetite for life will increase, and all areas of your live will improve dramatically!

Keep Your Uniqueness alive. Let it Shine.

6. Know exactly what makes you different from others, we all are unique, keep your Uniqueness alive, no one can be you, only you can be You, be genuinely You. Being genuine will help others to understand and support you when you need help. Know your strengths and weaknesses so that you can start planning Your Future. Prepare and set things right before you get started with your “Confidence Boosting” process/project. Acknowledge that to get something that you never had, You must be ready and willing to do what is NEEDED, because Where Your Awareness goes Energy Flows!

7. Don’t be afraid of getting older. Instead, Be Afraid of Wasting your Life with things that no longer serve you.

8. Pour your belief into the practical structure of Transforming your life into a very meaningful and fulfilling life. State your objectives, and also remember to include a strategy and a time frame for achieving your goals.

Use Your Energy wisely

9. Don’t waste your precious energy and time with things that you cannot change or are out of your control.

10. Focus only on things that you can change such as figuring out what you really really want or need in order to overcome a lack of confidence.

11. Spend as much time as you possibly can, focusing only on how You Can Implement Your New Learnings.

12. Be open and receptive to embrace new learnings and new skills and be Willing to Implement them in all areas of your life. 

13. Make sure you spend most of your time in the company of people who want to succeed and want you to succeed too. Be aware that not everyone has a “can-do” attitude and you may be too easily discouraged by those who are negative about you or your chances of success. Avoid people who undermine your ambitions or people who are happy for you to stay the way you are because if you change for the better it would threaten their status quo. Be as Brave as you possibly can and do yourself a massive favour: Follow Your Dreams and start living today as if your dreams are already a reality! 
Identify who can help and support you.

Identify Who is able to help You and don’t be afraid of ask for Help.

14. Learn how to Identify who is able to help you and who may make you feel even more confused and insecure. If you know someone who you believe has the skills to help you, approach them and ask them for their advice. Don’t get stressed if it takes you a while for you to see a positive change in your mindset, praise yourself for the small steps and for the changes that you managed to implement so far.

15. Just as much as every journey begins with a destination and a road map. In life, your road map is your short, medium, and long-term goals. So, if you are entering a new territory you will need to be prepared. Any good idea you may have right now will only become reality when there is a plan of action, and when that Action is implemented! 

16. Adopt an attitude of Laser-Like-Focus, and have a strong and personal drive to achieve your goals, because only by having a very clear vision for what you really really want from your life you can make the difference between success and failure. So, Get Ready to Do what you are learning right now and start your self-discovery journey right now. Life is too short for you to waste your precious time making the same mistakes, again and again and expecting to achieve different results. The only way to start having positive results is by stop making the same mistakes and learning from them without judging yourself or others.

17. Know exactly why you feel the need to change your Life. Know your Whats and Hows in order to clarify your mind. Do not hesitate to hire a life coach if you feel like you cannot do it without help or if you find it overwhelming. I am an expert on Supporting Women Over 50, Boosting Self-confidence in Women Over 50, and helping them to achieve Radical and Transformational Confidence.

18. Boosting Confidence Coaching Sessions can be individual sessions or a series of sessions or in small groups. It will depend on your choice or according to your needs. Even if you are unsure about exactly what to achieve from this session, I have found clients find it comforting to speak to someone neutral about the feelings and circumstances they may be facing. You will be surprised by how strong you can be or feel when you have the right support. I am here to help you in an objective way and to help you short-cut your route to success. 

19. This is one of the best and easiest ways to check your mindset: On a scale of 1 to 10 where are you in relation to your life goals? 

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To Your Best-Self,

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